We come across so many persons in our day to day life. And some of them effect our lives while some get associated with it. And being a natural tendency of human being we spend our time in judging the nature of a person. And as far is my experience, we generally tend to see the negative aspect of a person until and unless that person is dear to us or a person whom we want to come closer to. And one of the reason behind this is to show our own superiority.
I writing this myself am not accusing anybody else but this being my own behaviour and of some of the people I have come across till date.And on giving a second thought one realizes that 'abhi tak mujhme aisa hai hi kya ke main khud ko achcha kahu'.While writing this I am recalling a dialogue from movie border- ' hum hi hum hai to kya hum hai,,,tum hi tum ho to kya tum ho'. The thing that I have been unable to get is that why we don't see the positivity in other guys? Why just we don't bother to grab some of the positive things from others? When we get to know other people why we just try to ignore their strengths? Why do people think that someone is smaller in age or monterily not sound enough to show us good path? Why does ones EGO comes infront of every good thing that a person can learn from others?
This life is too short for us to make enemies, inculcate hard feelings against someone whom we dislike or just finding faults in others. Why not we use this short life to make this world beautiful and thereby making our own life great by seeing and hence trying to adopt some nice things from others may he/she be the person whom we had disliked always, but then he/she has also been created by the some lord, there must be some good in his/her life too.Why not just try to put our so called EGO ( a big useless thing )aside and try to spread love in this LIFE.
I myself have a long way to cover before I can say that I have won this battle with myself(bad side of my life). But yaa, I did want to share this because I have seen so much that.... maybe that lets start this together- an initiative towards beautiful WORLD.
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Its so very true, but kisi ki burai dekhne mein alag hi maza aata hai. :)
It's somethin very rare to find people puttin forward their negative points in front of others.U find every person sayin i'm this, i'm that bt no body ever bothers to say that these r my -ve sides.So i should really appreciate u for this.I would like to share with u something regardin this. U truly said that one tries to see the negative side of a person but let me tell you until n unless u r bothered about that person, u don't have much time to think abt him/her. So if u r even though seein the -ve side, b sure that person holds a part of ur heart's space. so takin this in +ve sense, surely see the -ve sides bt let not that b the decicdin factor of his character. and since tht person means sumthin to u help him out to eradicate it.So i hope i have helped u out to convert ur -ve side to a +ve one.So continue with ur habbit with a slight change in it's view.
kitna sochte ho.Obsession hai kya sochne ka? Kabhi kabhi kudh ke baare main bhi soch lena chahiye.If u start loving yourself everything else come in order automatically.Aur jahan tak doosro ki baat hai,even if i don't say it u'll worry about them,isin't it?And there is no harm saying"i'm the best" coz' jab doosro main qualities hai to kudh mein bhi hogi.Why wait for others to see it, see it yourself and appreciate it. Haan and continue worring about others. Seriously kitna sochte ho.
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