We come across so many persons in our day to day life. And some of them effect our lives while some get associated with it. And being a natural tendency of human being we spend our time in judging the nature of a person. And as far is my experience, we generally tend to see the negative aspect of a person until and unless that person is dear to us or a person whom we want to come closer to. And one of the reason behind this is to show our own superiority.
I writing this myself am not accusing anybody else but this being my own behaviour and of some of the people I have come across till date.And on giving a second thought one realizes that 'abhi tak mujhme aisa hai hi kya ke main khud ko achcha kahu'.While writing this I am recalling a dialogue from movie border- ' hum hi hum hai to kya hum hai,,,tum hi tum ho to kya tum ho'. The thing that I have been unable to get is that why we don't see the positivity in other guys? Why just we don't bother to grab some of the positive things from others? When we get to know other people why we just try to ignore their strengths? Why do people think that someone is smaller in age or monterily not sound enough to show us good path? Why does ones EGO comes infront of every good thing that a person can learn from others?
This life is too short for us to make enemies, inculcate hard feelings against someone whom we dislike or just finding faults in others. Why not we use this short life to make this world beautiful and thereby making our own life great by seeing and hence trying to adopt some nice things from others may he/she be the person whom we had disliked always, but then he/she has also been created by the some lord, there must be some good in his/her life too.Why not just try to put our so called EGO ( a big useless thing )aside and try to spread love in this LIFE.
I myself have a long way to cover before I can say that I have won this battle with myself(bad side of my life). But yaa, I did want to share this because I have seen so much that.... maybe that lets start this together- an initiative towards beautiful WORLD.
Saturday, July 12, 2008
Friday, July 4, 2008
LIFE in DREAMLAND
PRECAUTION: ITS REALLY VERY BIG AND IT HAD TO BE COS ITS A DREAM, IF AT ANY PLACE FIND IT BORING ITS NOT MY RISK :) .READ AT UR OWN RISK.....
One gets so much in this life, and yet he/she demands for some more. And why not?? After all we are not here to just accept whatever we get and sit idle, we got this life to CHANGE anything that we either don't like or if we want to improve the existing scenario. So, why not see a dream and try to persue that.
Dream of a country, a place where there is peace, trust, understanding between people, equality & many more qualities that may lead to a perfect place to live in. I actually know this sounds somewhat 'over expectation' and like 'bhasan-baji' from some minister for fulfilling his votebank. But ,if I tell this as a normal guy then I would support myself by saying- "If we are seeing a DREAM, then why not be it BIIIIGGG and BEAUTIFUL, why to restrict or control our mind to something LIMITED" .
If found that convincing then go ahead reading this & welcome to my dreamland whose every thoughts start at I and end at A of INDIA. A country known for its vast and varied cultures and traditions and passing through all these is strong thread of understanding,trust,co-operation and a pure and sacred feeling of being one and not distinguished on the basis of castes and religion. A country known for its green and most clean environment all over the world. Roads as one can never ever imagine,with some beautiful trees on both sides. A country whose rivers had been known traditionally and will be known to eradiacte some of the most hazardous diseases because of its purity,(more pure than aquaguard :) ). A country whose 100% population is literate or atleast aware of some of the basic aspects of living this life to its fullest and being self-sufficient and confident enough to get what will make life of his/her family better and happier and at the same time not at the cost of happiness of others. By that I mean a corruption free , non-violent and no-entry to any such hard feelings that leads a person to choose a path of crime and terrorism. A peaceful country and a country whose people have some selfless feeling.
Yaaa ,most importantly a technically sound country with some most tallented guys in the world (which I think we already have) serving for betterment of there own country. Every person living a meaningful life, by that I mean self-satisfied with all the things he got and aiming for something higher. A place where girls are also treated in the same manner as boys (which I seriously think we havn't achieved yet). One big change that can give a push to my last thought is the change of mentality of people ,not just parents but also the bad elements of society which lead parents to be very possessive about there children. That is something about mentality which I think is actually immpossible to change for the whole population, so there is an other way out to this problem. Why girls should depend on others for their protection ??? I don't think that there is anything less in girls that they cannot fight for something that's RIGHT. They should themselves know some of skills to protect themselves in adverse situation (are movies nahi dekhti kya). I seriously believe that if someone's striving( fighting in this case) for something thats RIGHT then god is there with you ,just have faith and Go Ahead....
And one thing that my dreamland would be is that it will be fully planned (and gavar logon types not throwing khachra here and there) .Strict laws and some serious and lesson giving punishment to the defaulters. Buildings as modern as it could be ,exteriors made of glasses ,many stories high....so & so (after all its a big dream).Cars and other vehicles used would be fuel efficient and non-polluting. Industries fully equipped with modern technology,specially proper arrangement for dumping their wastes .Trees and greenary all around, pure and melodious air flowing through them. Peaceful and Joyful life of each and every person (the persons whom we today call poor people would be standing at a place beside us,in other words persistence of EQUALITY).Every person should get to know the real motive behind getting this beautiful life and try genuinely to persue it.
Finally ,I do realize that this is just a dream ,but if a person doesn't sees a dream then what will he persue in life. If someone had not seen a dream to make car,airplane ...etc-etc, how would have we got some of the things without which one cannot imagine life in todays world. Moreover , I surely think I have missed many other things,and would like to request anyone who had courage to tolerate this blog & read it to share anything else that u think I missed out.
One gets so much in this life, and yet he/she demands for some more. And why not?? After all we are not here to just accept whatever we get and sit idle, we got this life to CHANGE anything that we either don't like or if we want to improve the existing scenario. So, why not see a dream and try to persue that.
Dream of a country, a place where there is peace, trust, understanding between people, equality & many more qualities that may lead to a perfect place to live in. I actually know this sounds somewhat 'over expectation' and like 'bhasan-baji' from some minister for fulfilling his votebank. But ,if I tell this as a normal guy then I would support myself by saying- "If we are seeing a DREAM, then why not be it BIIIIGGG and BEAUTIFUL, why to restrict or control our mind to something LIMITED" .
If found that convincing then go ahead reading this & welcome to my dreamland whose every thoughts start at I and end at A of INDIA. A country known for its vast and varied cultures and traditions and passing through all these is strong thread of understanding,trust,co-operation and a pure and sacred feeling of being one and not distinguished on the basis of castes and religion. A country known for its green and most clean environment all over the world. Roads as one can never ever imagine,with some beautiful trees on both sides. A country whose rivers had been known traditionally and will be known to eradiacte some of the most hazardous diseases because of its purity,(more pure than aquaguard :) ). A country whose 100% population is literate or atleast aware of some of the basic aspects of living this life to its fullest and being self-sufficient and confident enough to get what will make life of his/her family better and happier and at the same time not at the cost of happiness of others. By that I mean a corruption free , non-violent and no-entry to any such hard feelings that leads a person to choose a path of crime and terrorism. A peaceful country and a country whose people have some selfless feeling.
Yaaa ,most importantly a technically sound country with some most tallented guys in the world (which I think we already have) serving for betterment of there own country. Every person living a meaningful life, by that I mean self-satisfied with all the things he got and aiming for something higher. A place where girls are also treated in the same manner as boys (which I seriously think we havn't achieved yet). One big change that can give a push to my last thought is the change of mentality of people ,not just parents but also the bad elements of society which lead parents to be very possessive about there children. That is something about mentality which I think is actually immpossible to change for the whole population, so there is an other way out to this problem. Why girls should depend on others for their protection ??? I don't think that there is anything less in girls that they cannot fight for something that's RIGHT. They should themselves know some of skills to protect themselves in adverse situation (are movies nahi dekhti kya). I seriously believe that if someone's striving( fighting in this case) for something thats RIGHT then god is there with you ,just have faith and Go Ahead....
And one thing that my dreamland would be is that it will be fully planned (and gavar logon types not throwing khachra here and there) .Strict laws and some serious and lesson giving punishment to the defaulters. Buildings as modern as it could be ,exteriors made of glasses ,many stories high....so & so (after all its a big dream).Cars and other vehicles used would be fuel efficient and non-polluting. Industries fully equipped with modern technology,specially proper arrangement for dumping their wastes .Trees and greenary all around, pure and melodious air flowing through them. Peaceful and Joyful life of each and every person (the persons whom we today call poor people would be standing at a place beside us,in other words persistence of EQUALITY).Every person should get to know the real motive behind getting this beautiful life and try genuinely to persue it.
Finally ,I do realize that this is just a dream ,but if a person doesn't sees a dream then what will he persue in life. If someone had not seen a dream to make car,airplane ...etc-etc, how would have we got some of the things without which one cannot imagine life in todays world. Moreover , I surely think I have missed many other things,and would like to request anyone who had courage to tolerate this blog & read it to share anything else that u think I missed out.
Wednesday, July 2, 2008
A Beautiful LIFE
Today,my outlook towards this life has changed almost completely. May this be the reason that I'm using this occasion to write this blog. Every day that i'm spending in this world , each and every person that I'm meeting seems as if I'm getting the best in this world. I had a great opportunity to meet a person for 20 days, and that was a mind blowing experience for me.That person was full of life and having spent 63 years of his life in this world he had almost thrice an experience of this life than me. And all the time that I spent with him ,all the things that he shared with me went to my collection of treasures.He had so much to tell, so much to laugh about ,and so much about happiness and sorrows of life that I can't even think to express all those in writing. And ,one great thing about that person was that he was full of life -A HAPPY MAN.
And then now when I look back to my whole life till now I get to realize that by the grace of god I have got a great family,relatives and some of the friends that I can cherish upon for my whole life.I went to a college which I never actually wanted to go to.But now after having one year of my life there I can realize for sure that what would I have missed if I hadn't went there. I'm so much grateful to lord for this life .
In other words, my attitude towards this life has changed . I've started taking every aspect of this life positively and also I'am ready to take some risks because now I'm sure that I have my parents, relatives and some friends who are and will always be with me in every thing that's right.
This world seems to have turned more beautiful and colorful only for me. There is a sweet and melodious voice flowing through air and filling my life with peace and joy. Now I don't need to worry about anything because this life will itself make my way towards the future I'm aiming for,I just need to have faith and move on with it without stopping. While writing this I'm remembered of a line of a song( actually I'm very filmy kind of person) from movie- Veer Zaara "jahan tak bhi jaaye nigaahein..., baraste hai jaise ujaale..., saji aaj kyun hai yein raahein... ,khile phool kyun hai niraale..." .This song is coming to be true in each and every aspect of my life today.
My parents,relatives,friends and above all my god are my strength and support which are the source of my confidence towards approaching this life in a new way as I've never done before.....
And then now when I look back to my whole life till now I get to realize that by the grace of god I have got a great family,relatives and some of the friends that I can cherish upon for my whole life.I went to a college which I never actually wanted to go to.But now after having one year of my life there I can realize for sure that what would I have missed if I hadn't went there. I'm so much grateful to lord for this life .
In other words, my attitude towards this life has changed . I've started taking every aspect of this life positively and also I'am ready to take some risks because now I'm sure that I have my parents, relatives and some friends who are and will always be with me in every thing that's right.
This world seems to have turned more beautiful and colorful only for me. There is a sweet and melodious voice flowing through air and filling my life with peace and joy. Now I don't need to worry about anything because this life will itself make my way towards the future I'm aiming for,I just need to have faith and move on with it without stopping. While writing this I'm remembered of a line of a song( actually I'm very filmy kind of person) from movie- Veer Zaara "jahan tak bhi jaaye nigaahein..., baraste hai jaise ujaale..., saji aaj kyun hai yein raahein... ,khile phool kyun hai niraale..." .This song is coming to be true in each and every aspect of my life today.
My parents,relatives,friends and above all my god are my strength and support which are the source of my confidence towards approaching this life in a new way as I've never done before.....
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